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They say that a million dollars in $100 bills is 43 inches high, but a billion dollars in $100 bills is almost three times the height of the Empire State building. A million dollars in $100 bills would weigh 22 pounds, but a billion dollars would weigh 11 tons.
Suffice it to say that the accumulation and maintenance of a billion dollars requires much wisdom. Today I want to look at seven amazing lessons from seven of the world’s most famous billionaires. These billionaires range from Bill Gates to Mark Cuban and each of these individuals have accomplished amazing things.
There are many things that we can learn from them so enough with the monologue; here we go!
7 Amazing Lessons from 7 Distinguished Billionaires
“It’s through curiosity and looking at opportunities in new ways that we’ve always mapped our path at Dell. There’s always an opportunity to make a difference.” – Michael Dell, Founder, CEO, and Chairman of Dell Inc.
If you never look for an opportunity, you will never find one. The Wright Brothers were looking to see if it was possible for man to fly, they didn’t stumble upon it, they were looking for it. What are you looking for? The Scripture says seek and ye shall find, knock and the door will be open to you.
“I always knew I was destined for greatness.” – Oprah, Media Mogul
As the famous poem goes, “If you think you’re outclassed, you are, you have to think high to rise, you must be sure of yourself, before you can ever win a prize.” You must believe in “you” before anybody else will. Oprah believed that she would be a success, and she is. What do you believe about yourself, whatever it is, that’s what you will become.
“It’s better to hang out with people better than you. Pick out associates whose behavior is better than yours and you’ll drift in that direction.” – Warren Buffet, Investor
You can’t soar with the eagles, if you spend your time hanging with the chickens. Find people who are going where you want to go, and “conspire to aspire before you expire.” Atmosphere is critical, diligently guard who enters your inner-circle. Your friends are a prophecy of your future.
“As we look ahead into the next century, leaders will be those who empower others.” – Bill Gates, Co-founder and Former CEO of Microsoft, currently the 2nd richest man in the world behind Carlos Slim.
Who are you empowering, who are you helping, who needs you. You can’t go forward without helping others go forward. Instead of being concerned about how you’re going to get ahead, find a way to help others get ahead, and you will get ahead in the process. Empower others and you will empower yourself.
“In the end, you’re measured not by how much you undertake but by what you finally accomplish.” – Donald Trump, Real Estate Investor/Developer, TV Personality
Don’t be a “jack of all trades” and master of none. Don’t bite-off more than you can chew. Decide what you want to accomplish in your life, and spend your time accomplishing it. Work hard, take breaks, and in the end, if your focus is single, you will have accomplished it.
“I’m the type that thinks if you don’t learn from history, you’re doomed to repeat it.” – Mark Cuban, Internet Entrepreneur and NBA Team Owner
It sounds simple, but many people live a life of repeating the same mistakes over and over again.
The “cow in the ditch” example below gives us a pattern for how we should deal with our mistakes.
Here are the three steps you should follow whenever a “cow ends up in your ditch:”
Step 1: Get Cow Out of Ditch
Step 2: Find Out How Cow Got in Ditch
Step 3: Make Sure Cow Does Not Get in Ditch Again
Using these three simple steps, you can solve many of life’s problems (from debt to relationship issues).
“We will go forward, … We will never go back.” – Michael Bloomberg, current New York City Mayor and Founder of Bloomberg LP
You can’t make much progress forward if you keep on taking steps backwards.
Make a decision to go forward, never settle, never stagnate, life is about growth, it’s about development. You are supposed to grow, you’re supposed to become all that you are capable of becoming, so go forward and never look back!
Thank you for reading and be sure to pass this article along!
Additional Details on the Image Used: Bruce Schneier, Mark Cuban and Cory Doctorow. Bruce and Cory were recipients, along with Yochai Benkler, of the EFF Pioneer Awards.
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It took Mary Schreiber about an hour, and just a little moxie, to save $300. You can do it too.
After reading about the Red Tape Fight Pledge last month, Schreiber took a hard look at the $129-per-month cable and Internet bill that had been nagging at her, and decided it was time to do something about it.
"The Comcast bill was crazy expensive, and I have really just basic TV and Internet," said Schreiber, 58, a technical writer who lives near Denver.
Saving money has become a top priority for her since she was laid off 11 months ago.
Mary Schreiber
Her string of bad luck actually began 10 year ago, when she thought she'd found her niche as a technical writer for a high-flying telecom company named MCI WorldCom. But by the time MCI WorldCom CEO Bernie Ebbers took the Fifth before Congress about accounting irregularities, Schreiber was unemployed.
Finding a job at age 50 can be a challenge, but Schreiber landed on her feet, this time with a multinational software firm named Mincom, based in Australia. As a single woman, the $3,000 in take-home pay, along with decent benefits, provided her with a good living.
Then, the floor fell out from under her again. Last May, Mincom laid her off. Now 57, she knew her prospects were dimmer than last time. The $1,700 in monthly unemployment checks she began to receive would be considered generous by many state standards, but she still needed to learn to live on about half the income she previously had. And she needed to find health insurance. So she started doing a series of small things to lower her monthly bills.
Still, finding a job "is a full-time job," she said, filling out applications, keeping up with government paperwork, applying for various insurance subsidies, etc. So while she did some things to cut back no costs, others were neglected.
When she read about the Red Tape Pledge last month, she realized she had let her TV and Internet costs soak up too much of her budget for too long. So she used a technique we've talked about a lot in the Red Tape Chronicles: She called competitors and got bids for her business.
First stop — Qwest, which had been mailing her promotional offers for months. A Qwest operator told her she could get Internet access for only $35 per month. Then, she called the Dish satellite TV network, which offered a comparable television package for about $30 a month. She knew there would be extra taxes and fees, and that these were promotional offers that would expire. Still, she now had hard evidence that she was overpaying, and she had a backup plan when she began her negotiations with Comcast.
Her intention all along was simply to talk Comcast into giving her a better deal. Switching services can be a hassle — users often need to change e-mail addresses, for example, and sometimes have to wait for installers and so on. But Schreiber was staring at $50 or more in savings each month. So she placed the best kind of phone call any consumer can — the no-lose phone call.
"I told Comcast I would rather stay with them, but I had to do something. The bill was just too high," she said. Then, she rattled off the offers she had in hand. It worked like a charm. The operator offered her TV and Internet service for $77 per month for six months, and she accepted on the spot.
"I could have saved a little more, but really I'd rather stay where I am," she said.
Comcast spokeswoman Jenni Moyer said the firm’s prices are “competitive,” but added that it will work with customers on an individual basis “to make sure our customers are getting what they want.”
“The key thing is we do offer a range of choices for customers so they can find thepackage and level of service that works for them,” she said.
Schreiber says her job prospects still aren't good, even though she said she's willing to move for a good job. In fact, she suspects she won't ever work again as a technical writer, because many firms have learned they can outsource technical writing tasks to low-wage overseas employees.
"Like any classic unemployed person, you have to force yourself to get up every day and go out, even if it's just to walk around the mall, as long as you don't spend any money, you have to get up and go somewhere," she said.
But she did put that Internet access to good use. She recently learned about a program that will help pay for her to go back to school, and help pay for her health insurance. In July 2009, Congress expanded the eligibility for Trade Adjustment Assistance, a program that helps U.S. workers whose jobs are shipped overseas. Schreiber will start school next week with the intention of earning system administrator certification for Microsoft products.
"You just really need to spend time exploring what's available out there, but you have to put in the time," she said.
Sounds like the same challenge consumers face who want to save money and beat back hidden fees and unfair charges. There are ways to save money, they just take some time.
But unemployed or not, can you afford to pass up a chance to make $300 with one hour's work?
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Would you know how to remove spyware, malware or any computer virus off your machines? Revanche of A Gai Shan Life shares her stories and questions on the matter of keeping one’s computer clean! For more of her delightful anecdotes on life and finances, you can subscribe to her RSS feed.
The pop-ups and virus alerts were off the charts for me yesterday.
When Avast and Microsoft Defender both failed to trace which nervy little bugger was causing Internet Explorer, the bane of my browsing existence, to pop up with nonsense and Failed 404 error pages, I did what any savvy netizen would do: I emailed my young cousin, the family tech geek.
It was a much easier diagnosis than usual. He promptly (for a footloose and fancy free college student) emailed back with his suggestion. The free anti-malware du jour, he said, is found at Malwarebytes, a program that his private college uses in their tech department. I had some trouble initially downloading and running the purportedly free program, but I eventually worked it out and was presented with a list of infections discovered in my computer (most of which I recognized from the invasive IE pop-ups) along with a Paywall to fix them.
Verdammt!
Intrepid cousin did a few more evaluations. I then ran the nearly hour-long scan for a thorough check. This time, the program came through with flying colors, finding and repairing all points of infections. We’ve been running a clean ship ever since. I highly recommend the Malware program as an adjunct to your primary virus protections.
Some of these products allow for free trials.
The quick and free (but for family favors) service got my wheels turning. I almost always have the benefit of a family or family friend’s expertise when it comes to IT maintenance; the one time I used paid “experts” at the local Best Buy, I sorely regretted the experience.
In short, when it came to having “professionals” work on my computer, I did without my machine for two weeks whilst they “diagnosed” the problem and called me back to the store with a regretful, “We can try running a [insert unintelligible test here] but it’ll cost $200 and then the repair will be extra. Oh, and you’ll lose all your data whether or not we can fix the problem.”
Thanks but no thanks! Here’s what I ended up doing: I took my neglected machine home to find that the Geek Squad had left their mark in the irreparably broken brightness function. Robin managed to salvage the machine AND my data, but we co-existed with eye strain for another three years (always with a touch of resentment that my precious Vaio had been violated).
The late lamented CompUSA was always a decent resource for new parts and somewhat informed advice, but where does one go now for good IT and computer hardware assistance? Other than cultivating your very own Family Geek, do you have a reliable resource for troubleshooting? Would appreciate your thoughts!
As an aside, it’s always a good idea to be prepared for computer downtime. Check out these articles on this subject:
How To Remove Spyware, Malware or Any Computer Virus?
Welcome to the 243rd Carnival of Personal Finance!
What in the world does that mean? Well, a blog carnival is a weekly round-up of articles on a particular subject (in this case, money). The carnival moves from blog to blog, and gives readers a chance to find new writers they may enjoy.
It’s been over two years since Get Rich Slowly last hosted a carnival (it takes many, many hours to put this together), but I wanted to do one for old time’s sake. Besides, it’s a great way to support up-and-coming financial bloggers. I found several great new money blogs while looking through the submissions this week.
So how does this carnival work? I received submissions from 72 other personal-finance blogs. Yes, I read every one of these articles. Yes, it took forever. I’ve cut out the worst of the submissions, as well as any that don’t apply to personal finance.
(Come on, folks: “the economic link between China and Canada” has nothing to do with the day-to-day financial life of the average person.) The 61 articles that remain are included in this carnival.
I’ve organized the articles by topic. The categories below are listed in alphabetical order — except for Relationships, which I bumped to the front in honor of Valentine’s Day! Within each topic, I’ve ranked the articles in order of how much I liked them. (So, the first article in the investing category was my favorite investing article this week.) And if I really liked an article, I marked it with a happy star:
. If you’re looking for just the best, skim through and find the starred posts.
Which of these articles is your favorite?
Relationships
Mr. Cheap at Four Pillars has a mind-boggling look at two views on the economics of dating. He explains how a man he knows literally keeps score of how much he spends on the women he dates; and how a woman he knows who tries to get men to spend as much as possible on her. This is “personal” finance in the true sense of the term.
Ray from Financial Highway, whose site slows my browser to a crawl, has a look at frugal Valentine’s Day gift ideas.
Jason at One Money Design also has some inexpensive Valentine’s Day ideas. (Although, I don’t know: Pizza can be romantic? Really?)
Joe from Personal Finance by the Book has a short look at Love and Money, just in time for Valentine’s Day!
Dull sublunary lovers’ love
(Whose soul is sense) cannot admit
Absence, because it doth remove
Those things which elemented it.
But we by a love so much refin’d,
That ourselves know not what it is,
Inter-assured of the mind,
Care less, eyes, lips, and hands to miss.
Our two souls therefore, which are one,
Though I must go, endure not yet
A breach, but an expansion,
Like gold to airy thinness beat.
Budgeting
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Dough Roller has a great article about improving your finances by using an overall financial goal. We have so many financial goals, many of which won’t be met for years or decades, that it can be easy to get discouraged by our progress. Borrowing an idea from David at MoneyNing, DR says that instead of focusing on the future, we should strive to simply do a little better every month. Doubleplusgood.
Darwin at Darwin’s Finance wonders, “How much could you reduce your budget if you were laid off?” Running the numbers on his own life, Darwin finds he could save over $1,000 per month if he had to. As you know from my own experience, I too was able to save $1,000/month when I cut my spending and paid off my debts. I wonder how many other folks could do this if they had to…
At the Canadian Finance Blog, Tom urges readers to control spending with a budget. It’s basic stuff, but it’s important.
Anastasia from Living on a Budget is a 36-year-old Russian woman living in London. This week, she has a short quiz to help you figure out which budget personality you are. (I scored a 55, by the way.)
Career
Mike, the Financial Blogger, explains how he got three salary increases in less than a year. Mike uses a poker analogy — and lots of winky faces
— to make his point, which is an excellent one! Remember: Negotiating your salary is one of the best things you can do to improve your personal finances.
At the Early Retirement Blog, Kyle argues that you should set aside 10% of your work for retirement, not 10% of your income. “The miracle of compound interest will get you where you want to be in 40 years,” he says, “but dedicating 10% of your time to generating alternative streams of income will get you there in 5.” While I think Kyle’s guilty of some hyperbole here — it’s extremely unlikely (read: nearly impossible) that you’re going to retire in five years just by spending 10% of your work hours on side projects — I think his overall idea is good.
Paul, the FiscalGeek, argues that the secret to success is hustle. I happen to agree: Hustle is vital in almost every area of life, especially personal finance. (But Paul, please, learn how to use an apostrophe.)
Jonathan from Christian PF has a look at five legitimate work-from-home jobs. I know there are legitimate work-from-home jobs out there, but even the real ones make me wary. I think it’s much better to create a job of your own doing something you’re passionate about…
At Grad Money Matters, guest-poster Caroline shares the secret to finding a part-time job in tough economic times. The advice here is good, but I wish the article were a little more in-depth.
How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.
I love thee to the depth and breadth and height
My soul can reach, when feeling out of sight
For the ends of Being and ideal Grace.
I love thee to the level of everyday’s
Most quiet need, by sun and candlelight.
I love thee freely, as men strive for Right;
I love thee purely, as they turn from Praise.
I love thee with the passion put to use
In my old griefs, and with my childhood’s faith.
I love thee with a love I seemed to lose
With my lost saints,—I love thee with the breath,
Smiles, tears, of all my life!—and, if God choose,
I shall but love thee better after death.
Debt
Though I found the writing a little sloppy and hard to follow, I really liked the submission from Penny Farthing who asks, “Is debt okay if it leads to self-improvement?” This is a fantastic question, and I think most people would say that yeah, this sort of debt is acceptable. (Think college loans and so on.) But where do you draw the line? I like this question so much that I may actually write a post here at GRS about it sometime in the future.
The always-awesome SVB from The Digerati Life explains how to apply for a loan at a peer-to-peer lender. I know know much about peer-to-peer lending, but I know that many folks have found it a useful way to attack their high-interest debt. This brief guide is a great way to get started.
Lakita from Personal Finance Journey has a look at everything you ever wanted to know about the new credit card laws but were afraid to ask. We’ve covered this recently at GRS, too, but Lakita’s take is a good reminder of the coming changes in credit card terms.
Craig from Money Help for Christians answers a question about options for when you can’t make your student loan payments. Because I know nothing about this subject, I learned something from this article.
If you really can’t make your student loan payments, you may end up in bankruptcy. If that’s the case, then Single Money Guy has some tips for rebuilding your credit after bankruptcy.
JS from Smart Money Daily goes over the 9 reasons Dave Ramsey hates HELOCs. Wordy wordy wordy.
Shall I compare thee to a summer’s day?
Thou art more lovely and more temperate:
Rough winds do shake the darling buds of May,
And summer’s lease hath all too short a date:
Sometime too hot the eye of heaven shines,
And often is his gold complexion dim’d,
And every fair from fair sometime declines,
By chance, or nature’s changing course, untrim’d:
But thy eternal summer shall not fade
Nor lose possession of that fair thou ow’st,
Nor shall death brag thou wandr’st in his shade,
When in eternal lines to time thou grow’st,
So long as men can breathe or eyes can see,
So long lives this, and this gives life to thee.
Finances
Studenomics has a fantastic look at how you can make money as a tutor. I often think making money is the most-neglected topic in personal finance, so it’s great to see articles that offer real-life experience and advice about earning extra income. Great stuff.
David, the Personal Finance Analyst, has a long look at your secret credit scores and their implication. He doesn’t have any concrete recommendation, but these “secret” scores are important, and not enough folks know about them.
Sun at The Sun’s Financial Diary encourages readers to become master of their financial domains. Sun says that when getting and accurate picture of your financial situation is the first step to becoming a master of your finances.
Adam at Magical Penny has a thought-provoking look at why it’s okay to lose money in a savings account. He argues that even while inflation is chipping away at the value of your cash, there are great reasons to build your savings. I think his advice is right on.
RJ from Gen Y Wealth takes a look at the wealth effect, which occurs when your net worth increases due to an increase in home or stock prices. This increase makes you feel richer, and therefore causes you to increase your spending.
At his blog, Len Penzo explains inflation by showing that Avatar isn’t the biggest move of all time. Inflation can be hard for some people to grasp, and this is a good way to explain it.
Wild nights—wild nights!
Were I with thee
Wild nights should be
Our luxury!
Futile the winds
To a heart in port—
Done with the compass,
Done with the chart!
Rowing in Eden—
Ah, the sea!
Might I moor,
Tonight, in thee!
Frugality
RC at Think Your Way to Wealth wonders, “Is self-reliance a lost art in this day and age?” This is a great mediation on our throw-away culture.
Ryan, the Financial Student, shares the story of how he’s getting 30 hours of college credit for 15 bucks using something called the post-secondary education option, which allows high-school students to take college classes for free. Way cool!
The Well-Heeled Blog argues that you can save money by embracing your natural hair, and says, “I used to spend $250+ and 4 hours in the stylist’ chair to straighten my hair. After I’ve come to accept (and even love) my wavy hair, however, I stopped the straightening treatments. I’ve discovered that I’m getting better hair and a fuller wallet in return.”
Again and again, however we know the landscape of love
and the little churchyard there, with its sorrowing names,
and the frighteningly silent abyss into which the others
fall: again and again the two of us walk out together
under the ancient trees, lie down again and again
among the flowers, face to face with the sky.
Investing
Note: There were a lot of of submissions in this category, and they’re all pretty good actually. They’re still ranked in order of how I liked them, but I felt these submissions were much stronger than in other categories, so even those near the end of the list are still worth reading.
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My favorite post of the week is from Pop Economics, which I’d never heard of until today. Pop explores the illusion of control — our compulsion to do something with our investments. Studies show that we feel happier if we feel like we’re in control of our investing future. When we don’t have control, we feel depressed. With that in mind, how do you reconcile those instincts with passive, low-cost investing? This article explores a couple of options. I love this blog. It just started on January 1st of this year, which is why I’d never heard of it, but I’m a subscriber now!
Mike, the Personal Finance Ninja, gives three reasons the average joe is a bad investor. Mike says that you are not Warren Buffett. For most of us, active trading is not a good idea; instead, we should keep expenses low and diversify with index funds. Ninja cartoons! Warren Buffett quotes! Index funds! How could you not read this article?
Mike at Gather Little by Little shares the second part of a series on what he calls “investing baby steps”. In this installment, he examines some investing strategies for beginners. (There are more strategies to come in the future!) I think this is could be a useful series of articles for folks wanting to learn more about how to invest.
The Dividend Guy shares seven warning signs that you need to repair your investment portfolio, a good reminder that it’s important to review your investments at certain intervals. (I recommend reviewing your asset allocation once per year, though some folks think you should do it every quarter.)
Jim at Bargaineering just published another in his ongoing series of Devil’s Advocate articles, in which he tries to argue against conventional financial wisdom. (He doesn’t necessarily believe what he’s writing; he just wants to present the other side.) In this case, he tries to argue that you shouldn’t invest in the stock market.
Another Mike — Mike Piper, the Oblivious Investor — has a review of Zvi Bodie’s Worry-Free Investing, a book that argues investors should put their money almost exclusively into TIPS, advice that Piper thinks is…well, oblivious!
The Smart Wallet has a good post on a dry subject: Paying capital gains taxes when you trade stocks. This explains yet another reason it’s not a good idea to be an active stock trader.
At Free Money Finance, a guest poster explores the eight biggest mistakes investors make. Solid advice here.
Paul Williams from Provident Planning has an article with a very narrow target audience: He’s reviewed Prudential’s Retirement Red Zone, which is apparently a pitch at soon-to-be-retirees to use variable annuities.
Gather ye rosebuds while ye may,
Old Time is still a-flying;
And this same flower that smiles today,
To-morrow will be dying.
The glorious lamp of heaven, the Sun,
The higher he’s a-getting;
The sooner will his race be run,
And nearer he’s to setting.
That age is best, which is the first,
When youth and blood are warmer;
But being spent, the worse, and worst
Times still succeed the former.
Then be not coy, but use your time,
And while ye may, go marry;
For having lost but once your prime,
You may for ever tarry.
J.D.’s note: I love this poem.
Money Management
Jeff Rose from Good Financial Cents has a great piece on how to find the best financial advisor for you. If you’re in the market for a financial planner (or other advisor), be sure to read this.
Can you retire early without getting lucky? That’s what Tim from Canadian Dream: Free at 45 wonders. He says that nearly every story he’s heard of early retirement has included an element of luck. But can the average person retire early? Tim ran the numbers and found that if you do everything right, yes it’s possible. But you have to avoid consumer debt, buy a small house, and keep away from lifestyle inflation. Great piece!
Ron at The Wisdom Journal has a thought-provoking piece about goals. He notes that 80% of accidents on Mt. Everest happen on the way down, and wonders if this isn’t a metaphor for how we handle financial goals. We spend so much time planning how to reach our financial destinations that sometimes we forget to think about what happens after. Interesting stuff.
At Sweating the Big Stuff, Daniel takes a look at compound interest and why it’s important to pay yourself first.
K from Family Balance Sheet shows how to create your own family balance sheet, which will let you manage your household like a business. (Includes a sample Google Docs spreadsheet you can use!)
PT Money has a run-down of joint savings accounts. What are they? Why should you care?
Modern Gal (a great blog I’ve never seen before) has some short-and-sweet financial advice for thirty-somethings. These are basic but important tips.
Big Cajun Man from Canadian Personal Finance (there are cajun Canadians?) wonders, “Do you have a financial GPS?” He thinks it would be great if there were some automated way to know when you’ve made a wrong turn with your money.
When I am dead, my dearest,
Sing no sad songs for me;
Plant thou no roses at my head,
Nor shady cypress tree:
Be the green grass above me
With showers and dewdrops wet;
And if thou wilt, remember,
And if thou wilt, forget.
I shall not see the shadows,
I shall not feel the rain;
I shall not hear the nightingale
Sing on, as if in pain:
And dreaming through the twilight
That doth not rise nor set,
Haply I may remember,
And haply may forget.
Real Estate
Though it’s basic stuff, I really liked Austin’s article about Renting 101: What you should know before you sign at Foreigner’s Finances. This basic info is valuable for folks just starting out on their own. Maybe you have a brother or niece to forward this article to.
J. Money from Budgets are Sexy warns that owning a home is more expensive than you think, writing, “There are a ton of benefits that go along with this American Dream (tax write-offs, stability, equity, etc), but you’ve got to be aware of the financial drains as well.”
Thinking of buying a home buy confused by the terminology? Elle at Couple Money has a post that explains how amortization and mortgages work. It’s a pretty math-y article, but will probably prove useful to those folks looking to buy in the near future.
Rob at Free Family Finance has an 8-minute video about the differences between 15- and 30-year mortgages. TL;DW.
She walks in beauty, like the night
Of cloudless climes and starry skies;
And all that’s best of dark and bright
Meet in her aspect and her eyes:
Thus mellow’d to that tender light
Which heaven to gaudy day denies.
[...]
And on that cheek, and o’er that brow,
So soft, so calm, yet eloquent,
The smiles that win, the tints that glow,
But tell of days in goodness spent,
A mind at peace with all below,
A heart whose love is innocent!
Taxes
Free From Broke has a quick run-down of qualifying for and claiming the first-time homebuyers tax credit. I’ve had some people ask me about this, and frankly I don’t know much about it. You folks should head over to check this out.
Matt from Debt-Free Adventure explains how he prepares his taxes online and offers tax help and tips for first-time online software users. (Apparently he’s a big fan of TurboTax Online.)
Miscellaneous
Mighty Bargain Hunter has a great reminder about identity theft and financial security: Sometimes your bank will call you for a legitimate reason; if they do, call them back. He explains the process using his own situation as an example.
At Eliminate the Muda, LeanLifeCoach takes a look at money and time, and how we waste them. I’ve said it before, and I’ll say it again: One of the keys to my financial turnaround was that I stopped wasting time. It’s amazing what you can accomplish when you actually do things!
The Weakonomist goes on a rant against bundling, the practice of making you pay extra for crap you don’t want by packaging a bunch of stuff together. I think he’s got a valid point, though his Microsoft example seems to go against his argument. (Or am I missing something?)
Kyle from Suburban Dollar shared a 4-minute video review of Gary Vaynerchuk’s book Crush It! I’m not a fan of video posts (see my whine about Free Family Finance above) because they force the blog “reader” to sit there passively and prevent them from skipping spots. But Kyle does a good job here of staying succinct, and his review of the book pretty much matches my own. (Including the complaint that there isn’t really any actionable advice in the book.)
The blogger from Don’t Quit Your Day Job takes a look at why parents with children seem to volunteer more than others. (Answer: It may be because they volunteer to help with their children’s activities.)
Jason from Live Real, Now has a cute piece about what Dungeons and Dragons taught him about finance. In a similar vein, B Simple from Simple Financial Lifestyle shares the keys to winning your own personal financial Super Bowl. Gimmicky, but fun.
Helen at Science and Money (another blog I’ve never seen before) has a review of Saving Money by Mary Firestone, a financial-literary book for children. Helen thinks it’s lame.
Final carnival stats: 72 submissions, 11 rejected (and another 7 nearly so), 61 accepted (10 of which were highlighted). Six hours to prepare: Five hours to compile and list links, and another hour to create theme and post the carnival. 3705 words. Photo by Sophiea.
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A zero based budget is a budget where every dollar you earn is assigned to a category in your budget. Your income minus your expenses equals zero – zero based budget. The idea sounds very simple, and it is, but the real value in creating and following a zero-based budget is that it requires you to plan very deliberately ahead of time and track it very closely as you go through your month.
The main benefit of creating a zero based budget is in the creation process. By forcing you to assign a dollar of income to each expense, you are taking a look at the entirety of your finances. You are forced to remember and allocate dollars to otherwise automatic expenses – such as rent, car insurance, and cable television. As you go through the budgeting process, you might consider shopping those services around to see if you can get them for less so you can spend that money on another expense.
Another big benefit is that by assigning each dollar of income to a category in your budget, you move away from a mindset of casual spending to one of deliberate spending. Unlike envelope budgeting, where you have some wiggle room, you take that wiggle room away when you zero base your budget because there’s no miscellaneous envelope.
As you can see, zero based budgeting is very deliberate but not unlike many other budgeting methods. It’s also a budgeting methodology that requires very little in the way of tools. While you could turn to a budgeting tool to help you out, the hard work is in the planning and adjustment of your zero based budget. All that can be done, fairly easily, using Microsoft Excel or some other spreadsheet application.
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How to Build a Zero-based Budget from personal finance blog Bargaineering.com.
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Turning hijacked computers into cash is still hard work for most computer criminals. They've got to trick the infected PC into sending spam, then trick a recipient into buying a useless product — or they have to steal online banking passwords, log onto a victim’s account, bypass the bank’s money transfer fraud controls, and so on.
It's much easier to just demand cash directly from infected users — a crime that's the Internet's equivalent of kidnapping.
"Give me all your money or your computer gets it-" is the basic proposition.
The technique was dubbed "ransomware" many years ago by computer virus researchers, and is not new. What is new is the explosion of ransomware, thanks to the evolution of ever-more-believable tactics during recent months.
In December, the FBI issued a warning about a broader category of malicious programs called "rogueware.” These programs appear on users' machines and claim to find viruses, then offer to clean them for $50. Rogueware looks so realistic — complete with Windows-like dialog boxes and scary warnings — that Web users were tricked into sending $150 million to criminals last year, the FBI says.
The new ransomware is similar, but far more aggressive. Once a computer is infected with it, the program does more than recommend a software purchase –it simply won't let users continue to use their PC until they pay up.
Luis Corrons Granel, a researcher at Panda Security, said use of ransomware by criminals is exploding — 25 percent of all rogueware in the past quarter involved a family of intimidating products named "TotalAntivirus.” It demands that users pay $50 for two years, $79 for a lifetime license.
“The increase (in ransomware) has been really significant,” Granel said. A single family of ransomware programs called “Total Security” made up one-quarter of all rogueware programs detected during the past three months, he said.
To an average user, most rogueware would be indistinguishable from other standard antivirus products. They look like fully functional software, showing Windows-like screens for firewall settings, file scanning, and every other tab you'd expect from standard antivirus products. “Total Security” even lets users choose their language — English, Spanish, and German are offered.
The switch to ransomware by the bad guys makes sense, says Peter Cassidy, spokesman for the Anti-Phishing Working Group — because computer criminals are refining their programming methods, and getting more aggressive about taking people's money.
See ransomware in action with this video from PandaLabs.
"Instead of trying to fool people and getting one out of 1,000 to pay, what they're doing now is just locking up the PC and telling them they have to pay," he said. "It's a really violent approach, really nasty."
There might be one silver lining to the rise of ransomware, Cassidy said.
"It's not in that gray area of selling people useless crap," he said. “It’s clearly criminal, and extortion does get the attention of law enforcement officials.”
As is customary, computer criminals are fusing this new attack with successful, older methods, said John Harrison, a security researcher at Symantec Corp. In one recent example, criminals first engaged in search engine "poisoning," so their booby-trapped Web sites would rate high in Google searches about Haiti’s earthquake. Visitors who clicked were tricked into downloading the ransomware software; and then were confronted with extortion demands.
"That's their distribution model," Harrison said -. "They used to do it subtly, but now they are doing it much more brazenly."
Screen capture provided by PandaLabs.
In some versions, users will see a message that says, "Google recommends you install this," or "Microsoft recommends you turn this feature on- … then, they take over your computer and all of a sudden it looks like you have 900 viruses," he said.
The latest flavor of ransomware, described on Jan. 8 by security firm F-Secure, doesn't disable all software, but it does something just as debilitating — it encrypts all the files on a victim's computer, and forces them to pay for decryption. The program, which calls itself Data Doctor 2010, costs $89.
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In some cases, researchers say, paying the ransom does work, at least initially. Still, it's a terrible idea to pay. On a grand scale, you've just subsidized a criminal. But there are far more practical concerns — why would you trust the author of ransomware with your credit card number? Perhaps you think you'd never do this, but remember, the FBI says rogueware writers have made $150 million, so someone is paying up.
If an unexpected antivirus dialog box lands on your computer screen, close the window immediately by clicking on the 'x' in the upper-right hand corner. Don't use the "OK/Cancel" buttons in the window — criminals often reprogram these.
You may or may not be infected anyway — it's possible you are already the victim of a "drive-by download" that doesn't require user interaction. So run an antivirus scan, if you can.
If the rogue software has actually taken over your computer, physically disconnect it from the Internet to avoid having your personal information sent back to the criminal. Then go to a different computer to search for solutions. Type in the name of the rogue software and search for information on well-known antivirus Web sites. Many antivirus firms offer free cleaners you can download or place onto a USB memory stick, and run on your infected computer.
But maintain healthy suspicion at all times. Ransomware authors have gone so far as to create fake software reviews about their products and place them around the Internet, even stealing logos from reputable technology publications, says Harrison.
"The idea is you search for information about the program and this turns up, and you figure it's ok so you install it," he said. "Some of this is soft sell, some is very hard sell."
As always, it’s never a good idea to follow links in e-mails when heading to Web sites – it takes an extra moment, but always click into your browser’s address bar and manually type the address.
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I did it!
I finally finished the manuscript for Your Money: The Missing Manual; I e-mailed the last chapter to my editor at 9:10 this morning.
This book was a lot of work. I started writing it on 23 September 2009 at 12:27 p.m. Over the next 115 days, I gained fifteen pounds. (I actually gained eighteen, but I’ve lost three since the start of the year.) The final manuscript contains 125,244 words and 269 pages in Microsoft Word, which would be about 400 printed pages. That’s too long, so we’ll spend the next month whittling it down to something more manageable.
During the past few months, I’ve been a virtual hermit, cloistered in my office (”deep in the word mines”, as I like to say), working 8-10 hours every day — and sometimes many more. Now that the book is nearly finished (aside from editing and printing), I calculate that my hourly wage for this project is…drumroll please…less than minimum wage!
Still, I’m not doing this for the money. I’m doing it because I want to help people turn their financial lives around. I’m doing it because I wish I’d had a book like this twenty years ago. If Your Money: The Missing Manual sells enough copies to earn back its advance, that’s great. But if it helps even a handful of people get out of debt and start saving for the future, I’ve done my job.
Chock full of goodness
What’s in the book? Plenty of the stuff you see at Get Rich Slowly — but also lots of new topics, too. Here’s a chapter-by-chapter breakdown:
Whew! Just typing that outline makes me tired. There’s a lot of info here. I’ve tried to find a balance between being too general and being too specific. I want folks to be able to come to the book when they have a question, get the basics, and then point them to places they can get more details, if needed. (That’s my goal, anyhow.)
Behind the scenes
There’s a lot of GRS in Your Money: The Missing Manual. That doesn’t mean I just dumped blog posts to the book. I’ve read some other books that have done this, and I don’t care for them. While I did use some material from the archives, I tried to steer clear of wholesale reproduction. (That’s not in anyone’s best interest, right?) What I mean is that I used the GRS philosophy to guide my writing, and I used some of my favorite themes throughout the book. And from time-to-time, I used info I’ve shared before. (About Roth IRAs, for example.)
Plus, the book profiles about a dozen GRS readers, who tell how they handle their finances in various ways. Two long-time GRS readers (Dylan and Charlie) are acting as technical reviewers. As I’ve written the book, I’ve frequently polled those of you who follow me on Twitter for suggestions and recommendations about topics and tools.
Simply put, this book is the sum of everything I’ve learned about personal finance so far, and it draws a lot on the collective brains of Get Rich Slowly readers. In a very real way, all of us wrote this as a team. It may not be perfect, but I’m pleased with how it’s come together.
Ready to rest
Still, I’m not sure I’m built for writing books. I have no problem producing short pieces on a daily basis. That’s fun and (pardon the immodesty) think I do a good job at it. But writing a book is an entirely different beast. It’s like asking a good sprinter to run a marathon. The sprinter can probably do it, and he’ll use some of the same muscles and skills, but he won’t enjoy it, and he won’t do it as well as those who have trained distance running.
That’s not to say I’m not proud of Your Money: The Missing Manual. I’m very proud of it. I put my heart and soul into this book, and I think it has the potential to help a lot of people. (I sure hope it will, anyhow.) I’m just saying I prefer to write for the blog format.
Anyhow, I appreciate your support over the past few months. It means a lot to me. There’s still a lot of work to be done, though. Starting Saturday afternoon, I have a ten-day author review period during which I’ll make revisions to the manuscript. I get a short break after that before we start the final round of editing. Assuming there are no problems, Your Money: The Missing Manual should hit bookstores two months from today.
I’d also like to note that I made the next step in my Year of Fitness this morning. I’ve spent the past couple weeks counting calories and changing my eating habits, but today I finally hit the gym, spending 45 minutes on the elliptical trainer. From this point on, fitness is job one around here.
Have a great weekend, everyone! I’ll be be back on Monday.
p.s. If anyone has tips for book marketing, please let me know. So much of a book’s success depends on marketing, but I’m not a very salesman-y type of guy, so this is going to be tough for me. I’m looking for ways to spread the word in a productive non-slimy way.
p.p.s. Just for kicks, I uploaded the book’s outline to my personal site. (It’s a 1.4mb PDF.) I wish you could see the physical outline; it’s dirty and torn from four months of constant use.
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Well, on the heels of the big giveaway by Money Crashers, I’m continuing the trend this week with a giveaway that is sponsored by YNAB (You Need A Budget). I’ve long advocated YNAB as a standalone personal finance application that can help you manage your spending and your budget better.
So what’s this I’m giving away? Earlier on, I gave a little preview of this highly regarded money management software for the desktop: YNAB 3 is a great alternative to Quicken and the now defunct Microsoft Money. You can check out what I say about this in my article on budgeting tools and software products. At any rate, here’s a short list of the features and benefits you’ll experience from using the YNAB tool:
If this sounds like something you’d be interested in, then I’d like to invite you to join this giveaway. I am offering one copy of YNAB 3 this month! Here are a few steps you can take to participate:
1. Subscribe to The Digerati Life to receive free financial information in your mail box each day (well, most days
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2. I’d love to give away this software to someone who’ll be able to make use of it. So I would encourage you to download a free trial of the software and provide some impressions or feedback on the tool in our comments section. Your comment will be counted as an entry.
3. I’ll pick a winner in the next few days.
I’ll be offering more free stuff in the horizon, and more opportunities for giveaways in the future, so please stay tuned to this channel for updates!
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Gregory Fayer opened an e-mail on Monday night that looked like it was from a fellow lawyer at Gipson Hoffman & Pancione. Instead, it was a message that placed Fayer and his firm in the middle of what might be the biggest international cyber-conflict to date.
This week, seach engine giant Google disclosed that it had also been a victim of cyber-attacks from China, and has taken the bold step of threatening to shut down the Chinese version of its search engine. On Thursday, computer security firm VeriSign said it had traced the Google attacks back to "to a single foreign entity consisting either of agents of the Chinese state or proxies thereof," and that 30 companies were targeted.
Fayer's law firm is likely one of those victims, as the technique used against it is similar to the Google attack. The e-mail Fayer received was laced with a computer virus intended to allow the sender to spy on Fayer's computer; a blatant act of espionage, he said. But Fayer wasn't terribly surprised. Last week, his firm filed a blockbuster lawsuit against the Chinese government on behalf of CyberSittter LLC, which makes parental control software. CyberSitter says the Chinese stole its computer code while creating the infamous Green Dam censorship program, which was designed to be placed on every Chinese citizen's PC last year. After a backlash, the government decided to make installation optional.
"Our law firm was certainly on high alert because of the lawsuit," he said. "This is somewhat to be expected when you file a high-profile lawsuit against the government of China.”
Fayer said he couldn't share much information about the e-mail, as FBI officials are investigating the incident. But it was designed to look like part of a normal electronic chat with a colleague.
"I was the first recipient at the firm," he said. "But there have actually been three waves of these customized e-mails.They'd each been made to look like they had a different sender, and a different pretense for the links or attachments embedded in the e-mails." The cybercriminal was clearly moving down a list of potential contacts at the firm, looking for someone to take the bait, he said.
"The program was designed to go in and get information from our servers and computers and sent it back to the sender," he said.
Computer researchers call the technique "spear phishing." Rather than flooding a firm with thousands of spam-like phishing e-mails hoping to dupe dozens of victims, the new technique involves very specific, targeted notes designed to fool one victim at a time – and then use that computer to spy on the target agency or steal data.
While Fayer could say little about the potential agent behind the attack, he said the firm assumed that "the timing of the e-mail attacks are not a coincidence."
No lawyers fell for the trick, Fayer said, and he did not believe any information had been stolen.
The alleged attacks from China are troubling on many fronts. On Thursday, security firm McAfee released a report saying the program used to target U.S. firms involved a so-called "zero day" vulnerability — one that was to this point unknown to the security community, and thus indefensible by anti-virus software. The flaw involved Microsoft's Internet Explorer, McAfee said, and the firm has now made a software patch available to protect against it.
But the malicious software attacks other software flaws too, McAfee said, adding this ominous note: "There very well may be other attack vectors that are not known to us at this time."
"These highly customized attacks known as advanced persistent threats were primarily seen by governments and the mere mention of them strikes fear in any cyberwarrior,” wrote McAfee's George Kurtz in a blog post today. “They are in fact the equivalent of the modern drone on the battle field. With pinpoint accuracy they deliver their deadly payload and once discovered - it is too late…All I can say is wow. The world has changed. Everyone's threat model now needs to be adapted to the new reality of these advanced persistent threats. In addition to worrying about Eastern European cybercriminals trying to siphon off credit card databases, you have to focus on protecting all of your core intellectual property."
Mark Rasch, former head of the Department of Justice computer crime unit, called the attacks “cyberwarfare,” and said it was clearly an escalation of digital conflict between China and the U.S.
“At least it’s an escalation of the rhetoric, and that’s an escalation,” he said. “War is the extension of politics by other means, and the Internet is the extension of politics, and this is a form of cyberwarfare.”
While isolated examples of government-sponsored hacking have popped up through the years, Rasch – who now runs Bethesda, Md.-based security consulting firm FTI - says this week’s incidents of alleged Chinese attacks are “new in the sense that they’ve been so blatant,” and apparently so widespread, ranging from attempts to read dissidents’ e-mails to spying on a legal adversary.
“We’ve had attacks in the past but by and large they were done in a way that gave the country plausible deniability,” said Rasch. “But this was different. This was fairly clearly a government-run operation.”
China has yet to directly address the allegations. At a regular press briefing in Beijing on Thursday, Foreign Ministry spokeswoman Jiang Yu said only “The Chinese government administers the Internet according to law and we have explicit stipulations over what content can be spread on the Internet,” according to the Bloomberg news service.
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Calendar management software has moved in a couple different directions in the last few years, and the crowded field is filled with solutions that offer a wide range of benefits and features. The list below is a partial list that I put together top help you navigate the field. To make it on the list, multiple calendars must be a feature and the ability to share or publish those calendars to others was a must.
As with most things, you get what you pay for, but within the price ranges from free to thousands per month, there are definite best in class selections, as listed below.
Free Software
Google Calendar, Airset, Cozi, Timebridge, Tungle and Yahoo Calendar mostly work on the principle that you can get a limited functionality for free (users will generally see ads on the screen when managing their calenders) with the option to purchase premium services for additional monthly or annual fees.
All of these free solutions offer some kind of calendar sharing between individuals, but they do not allow the establishment of groups of individuals that share certain resources in common. Work groups, sports leagues or volunteer organizations could use these solutions, but people involved in multiple groups could quickly develop a long list of calendars that could become unwieldy. This issue is addressed in different ways by the group sharing solutions listed below.
Group Sharing Solutions
Microsoft Outlook, CalendarWiz and ClearSync all offer solutions which make calendar sharing among groups possible. Unlike the previous free services, which will provide limited setup help and service & support, the following products all have customer service departments, which allows you to speak with a knowledgeable person who can help you become productive with the service.
This table offers a side by side comparison of the previously summarized services.
How do you currently manage multiple calendars? Do you still use a combination of paper and software based solutions? How important is mobile access to your team? We wan to hear from you, please take some time and let us know what you think in the comments below.
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Written on 1/12/2010 by Elmer Thomas. Elmer Thomas blogs primarily at Thinking Serious which focuses on programming, design, business and productivity content for tech entrepreneurs living in a 2.0 world. That is, when he is not tickling his entrepreneur itch or consulting. | Photo Credit: rox sm |